The Myth of the Alpha Male

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Posted by Rannoch at 01:43AM on August 27, 2009

Hombre,

Long time no speak! How the devil are you>

I have always liked the idea of your family as "the pack". It makes sense that this is how a pack would evolve. In the wild few animals willingly put themselves in a position of danger. All the fightring that goes on between stags for example is show. This is where we lose the plot. In our efforts to be top dog we get carried away. We confuse the competition for conflict and that's where it all goes wrong. Who'd not rather be a lover (and a parent) than a fighter?

All the best

Rannoch

Posted by Lou Schuler at 06:26AM on August 27, 2009

Rannoch! Good to hear from you!

I'm fine with the "loving"/"not fighting" paradigm. You get a lot more accomplished, and don't have nearly as many dental bills to worry about.

Posted by Rita Lernspiele at 01:16AM on September 04, 2009

I found this article really interesting. It made me reflect on our society and unfortunately I think that most "men" are nowadays rather "alpha females" than "alpha males"...

Posted by RobLL at 10:12AM on September 13, 2009

when it comes to humans it is probably more useful to look at primate dominance patterns rather than wolf ones. Of course the utterly fascinating thing is that wolf patterns have adapted to primate ones in interesting ways.

And it still remains true that dogs to attempt to dominate humans in some cases, and the more powerful the dog the more important for the human to dominate.

Posted by Tommaso Scopare at 01:05AM on October 08, 2009

It's a commonly known fact that women are more attracted to alpha males than any other type of male. But personally, speaking as a woman, I just want to say: Be yourself!

Posted by jlawac at 04:55AM on November 14, 2009

I am glad this was corrected, the whole 'alpha male' thing has gotten completely out of control in western society. I very much believe we are confusing capitalist culture with nature.

Posted by Matt at 02:02PM on December 17, 2009

Personally? In the event of a family you might be the only male, Alpha Male, at least the term has come to have a much broader and far reaching meaning. Some people due to genetics are physically and/or mentally superior and are leaders in their fields. It's as much a social designator as a pack designator, though often I agree the term gets misused.
Some people have a more natural level of aggression than others and a stronger competitive drive, it would be nice to believe that everyone could be an alpha however it totally destroys the natural pecking order. Created equal we are not.
As for the paradigm of peace? Peace is nice to a limited extent, until someone comes along who quite honestly doesn't care for peace or paradigms. I think of such a mindset as the psychological neutering of the species rather than an evolved state of being or an enlightened mindset. Whatever the reason we are not all equal, not everyone is peaceful or wants peace.
Also the concept of the Alpha male per say is far older than western Capitalism Jlawac, look at the celts who would fight to the death for the finest cut of meat, old warrior society where the strongest man often ruled. Caeser? An Alpha Male. Ghengis Kahn? Alpha. Mithradites? Yes another Alpha.
These archtypes exist in mythology: Beowuld and Siegfried anyone? Hercules and Achilles? The tale of Gilgamehs besting Enkidu and the other becoming his loyal follower? All of these are tales of alpha males. Was it the definition at the time? Was it the term used? No.
The beauty of the English language is that words and phrases are adaptive, much the same as Alpha Male, it was adapted to describe a particualr cult of manhood, the existence of which is hard to deny looking at historical, anthropological, and sociological record. Why do other men admire the fighters in the UFC? Why do people look in awe upon Marines, Navy SEALs, Army Rangers, and the British SAS?
To end what has become a bit of a lecture for which I dearly apologize, I would like to send off with the words of Samuel Clemmens, better known as Mark Twain-Man is the animal that blushes.

Posted by spielen kostenlos at 05:11AM on May 29, 2010

Great Photo

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